We've all been down this road, that's why we are here. I've tried the whole Emotional Affair, sexual affair, just meeting people, and whatever else there is to do.

I've come to realize that I was most happy when meeting people and making them feel like they were sexy again and deserving of their own happiness. I've had 3 EA situations that lasted 3-4 each, and one is somewhat ongoing still (9 years), the dynamic has just changed.

I've also had physical ones that fizzled out after a few months. I'd rather years of something meaningful over something short and pleasurable.

Also I found out that there really is a word for everything. I usually identify myself as Sapiosexual, and favoring intellectual conversations over physical attributes. But just learned of something called Gynosexual which is a preference toward femininity. This is why I'm somewhat flexible on my sexuality, but always prefer women appearances over neutral or masculine.

about me, 42, married, have kids, have ok job but looking for something more exciting (job hunting SUCKS). I love movies and will revisit Jurassic Park at least once a year. I'm the kind of person that giggles for scary movies. I like outdoor sports and even thought I live in the Southeast, I don't make plans around football games (mainly because we aren't that good).

I love theme parks and roller coasters. Being scared really brings out the adrenaline.

About you.... just be you. I'm pretty sure at everyone's core, we are a wonderful human being, but life circumstances often force us to create these walls around us that are hard to strip away and show vulnerability. So are you lonely, unappreciated, disenfranchised, frowned upon, or whatever way that society deems you nontraditionally sexy, send me a message and lets see if we can break away those stigmas together ( i certainly have my own that I need to break away)

you are amazing...remember that and the impact is has on others