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Hello there fellow Redditors. I am absolutely the last person anyone would ever suspect to be posting here. And youâre probably the last person anyone would suspect reading these. Realistically, the odds are probably stacked against us.  But we wonât know unless we try, right? Iâm particularly interested in the longtime lurkers.  I have this theory that you never reply because most of the posts are absolute garbage.  You know your worth and refuse to settle.  I like that.  Hopefully, you can see that this post is different and worth your attention.
I know my worth as well. I'm highly educated, professional, successful, and have a strong EQ. I run a sales and marketing team for a technology
company. All sorts of AI, ML, and automation. Super cool stuff. I really enjoy what I do, and have a terrific team. When I'm not traveling all over the country, I'll do my Zoom calls and emails from my home office in the upper Midwest.
I'm a dad of two college-aged girls and have a fantastic relationship with them.
We're fun, loving, trusting, and we talk openly about relationships, the world,
goals, struggles, and just life in general.
Physically, I look better than guys half my age. I take care of myself. I workout regularly and participate in summer triathlons....swim, bike, and run.  Although I donât care much for the running part.  I also lift weights a few days a week so I have arms, chest and broad shoulders.  I stand a statuesque 5â8â, weigh 175lb, and have hazel eyes.  (Probably not the match for Girl on Couch. Bonus points if you get the reference). Iâm told my eyes are kind of reverse-hazel(?)  I donât even know what that means, but people say they look cool.  I have all my teeth (in my mouth), all my hair (on my head), and none on my back.  When it gets a pinch too long it starts to look a little bed-heady. Usually thatâs when I get lots of fun compliments. My skin is fair, soft, and smooth.  I trim my nails, groom properly, and use good products. And I say this in my post because this is Reddit, and well, you know. Rest assured I have no surprise disfigurements.  Glasses for distance and clean shaven face.  Although Iâll go a few days here and there wearing a little scruff.
My story is probably like so many of yours.  I wonât go too, too deep. But happy to if we start chatting.  I grew up in a loving home, but my parents thought they always knew what was best for me.  So I didnât have much of a voice as I kid.  I was âgood and perfectâ and was always trying to please everyone BUT me.  So as a result, I married too young.  It sure made everyone happy, but I always felt empty.  I figured it would just get better with time.  You can guess how well that turned out.  So I looked outside to get my wants and needs met.  Emotional, physical, and intellectual. This is not my first rodeo.  In fact, I had a long-term AP.  That could be a whole different post for a narcissist self-help community.  Anyhoo, today I would say Iâm in a roommate situation more than anything else.
So youâve made it this far and Iâve held your attention. Great! I do sincerely appreciate you sticking around when there are so many posts to read. Now for the part about what Iâm looking for.  Ideally, youâre in your 30s or 40s.  Itâs not a hard rule.  Iâll go /-, but I generally enjoy women a little younger than me.  Youâre white, smart, curious, passionate, and youâre old enough to know what you want.  You settled before and youâll be damned if youâre going to settle again. Youâre in touch with your feelings and understand how to communicate. Youâve been down this AP road before and have previously found success because you understand the dynamics, excitement, and possibilities. Youâre physically fit and take care of yourself. Perfect?  Absolutely not.  But you should value what you see in the mirror and celebrating yourself. If you need to lose a few extra pounds still or are just starting to work on yourself, Iâm sorry, but Iâm probably not the right guy for you.Â
Iâm looking for a best friend and a lover.  Not many. Only one. Iâm not a 9-5 person.  You can expect to get communications often.  You can expect understanding when life throws you a curveball. Iâm dependable and know that trust is earned. Iâm well read and well traveled and can talk for hours about almost anything. I want to learn about you and share details about myself too. And if we discover we have sensational chemistry and start to lay down a solid foundation then that should translate into sensational intimacy.  Iâm sexually very open and have a very strong libido as well.  I donât have hangups and love to explore all the kinks and desires that we keep bottled up. Iâm a pleaser and get my satisfaction when I know my partner is getting what she needs.
As far as your location, Iâm open.  Iâm in Minnesota / upper midwest / CST, but I have the flexibility to travel anywhere and as often as I want. CA and TX are frequent destinations among others. I know there are a lot of women who only want local.  I can respect that.  But I donât think there are many guys with both the means and flexibility like I have.Â
Youâve been a longtime lurker waiting to finally find a post that resonates with you. Maybe this is the one. Maybe this is the time. Itâs low risk with the potential for very high reward. Come say hi, wonât you?
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