Hope everyone is having a good week and taking on this Thursday with a good energy. I’m fortunate to have some time to type this so thought I’d write out a thorough post to catch someone’s eye. Hopefully we align on what we are both seeking here.

I’m 36, a dad to a toddler, not here to bash my wife or change my situation but definitely missing the passionate, the sexy and shaded intimacy with a woman. That being said I’m the kind of guy who puts his all into one person and really only have the bandwidth to entertain one solid connection anyhow. My work and home life take center stage a lot, my nights and weekends aren’t always totally free but just know with a guy like me you’ll know quickly that I make time for the right one.

As for me I have my phone on me and lots of privacy during the days. I love to send voice notes and I’m also keen on sharing pics/videos all the time. It helps build and nurture a connection. I swear, tell terrible dad jokes but can also have you squirming and biting your lip at a moments notice. I’m confident, not shy, and love when someone can match my energy.

I am 6 foot, 220lbs. Once upon a time I played baseball in college (now softball in an old man’s league haha) I have blue eyes, short auburn hair and a trimmed beard. I’d say I’m fairly good looking, no tattoos or piercings and I’m proud of my smile.

I love crosswords, sudokus, trivia (especially Jeopardy), I’m a little too obsessed with college football and also find myself watching way too much trash tv.

I’m looking for someone 30 , bonus if you have kids, with an outgoing personality- which far outweighs looks in my book. I want someone who can dish it out and take it and isn’t afraid to bring out the spicy side. Words of affirmation is one of my love languages, just an fyi there.

A little more about me before I stop rambling. I drink iced coffee, get up at 5 am daily, have a dog, prefer to be naked as much as possible and I’ve been to all 50 states.

I realize there’s plenty to choose from here but hopefully you’ve read this whole thing and are intrigued. I promise I can make your day/week/month/year better, I can’t wait to hear from you!