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Seeking Connection M4F 47 — #California #BayArea
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Silly-Butterfly7433 is a male looking for a female in California
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I’m looking for a partner-in-crime over in their 30s (ideally in their 40s). I know Reddit skews younger, but let’s see what happens.

A bit about me:

I’m a 47-year-old, married but soon-to-separate man in the SF Bay Area. After 25 years together, my wife and I are civil but distant—emotionally and sexually. Life has its twists, but I’m handling my end.

Physically, I’m South Asian with salt-and-pepper hair, 5'6", fit-ish and working towards being fitter. I work in tech (shocker!) and am well-educated and well-traveled (around the globe) —also, DDF.

What I’m not looking for:

* A new life partner or someone to carry my emotional baggage.

* A quick, transactional meet

* Sugar baby / OF collaborations / AI bots.

What I am looking for:

* A genuine connection: chatting, sharing experiences, and exploring desires. I’m open-minded and experienced and enjoy mental and physical connection. A meaningful connection where we can chat, share experiences. I want someone who enjoys intimacy, and yes, I'm very much into exploring those desires—sexuality is important to me, but I also crave variety in conversation beyond that.

Ideally, you’re also attached, and we can respect each other’s boundaries.

If the vibe is right, meeting for coffee or lunch would be great. A mix of fun conversation and spice keeps things interesting.

If you’ve read this far, please DM or send me a chat message. If we click, we can move to a different platform

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2 weeks ago