We made it to Friday! Summer is over, School is beginning, Work and life chaos are ensuing, and our marriages continue to diminish in the sparks that were prevalent years ago. We are great coparents and friends, but a deadbedroom and little fun just has my wheels spinning. How did it come to this?

I'm sure you are thinking something similar. You know you shouldn't be here on the dark side of reddit, but you are pushed here too. Maybe its a lack of intimacy, or appreciation, or commuication... or worse all of the above. Whatever it is, our curiosity has me posting and you reading this post.

So what do we do now? I say we take it slow, but let our curiosity break the ice and get to know each other, in a coffee date kind of way. Lets get to know each other, understand what our interests are, what voids are existing, the things that excite us and give us fear. If we click, then let us evolve into something more, where we consistently fuel each other with energy on the weekly basis, applaud the positives and console in the negatives of our week. Rediscover fun and passion again, with the necessary discretion to not derail our personal lives entirely.

I know it's reddit and we don't want to go into this blindly after all. So who will you get the pleasure of meeting? - A dad of multiple kids, dog lover and white collar professional. - Active man who stil plays rec league sports, coach youth sports, and has worked out consistently for decades. - A witty mind and a sarcastic mouth, who enjoys good comedy and a late night movie while cuddling on a couch. - A sincere and transparent guy who will make the time for the right person, even in a busy schedule.

I don't want to set a bar for reddit, but if you check some (not all) of these preferences it would help us connect: - married and a mother - live an active lifestyle, hwp/slim frame, bright smile. Enjoys sports - A Working professional by day, the little league/soccer mom by evening and weekend. - fun personality, flirty conversationalist, and the occasional devious side. - EST preferred, in the event the .0001% chance of IRL meet up if every star in the universe aligns.

The weekend is almost here. We are both busy with weekend plans, but if you have made it this far, please introduce yourself, maybe make metion of your favorite summer trip or your football team you'll be watching this fall. No expectation to exchange photos anytime soon or hop to a differnt chat app immediately. I hope we both get to know each other better at a pace we are both comfortable with, andthat this is the start of a fun longterm OA friendship and fling!