Heh, so I realize there's alot of guys posting alot of stuff here, so how do I get this post to stand out? All I can do is be completely transparent, so here goes...

Let me start off by telling you a bit more about me, I'm a 44mwm, 6'2 205 pounds, tall and strong, kinda hairy with a definite dad bod type, but over the years I have steadily lost weight, at one point I weighed almost 270, so I'm very content with my body shape, and as for my naughty stuff lol, we'll get back to that later. I'm also clean and disease free, I don't smoke cigs but I do vape thc carts, so I'm definitely 420 friendly and I do drink but only socially.

Personality wise, I might come off to some at first as a big scary metalhead looking kind of dude, but honestly I'm probably one of the nicest, sweetest guys you'll ever meet, I'm warm, compassionate, considerate, and totally respectable. I treat women with the utmost dignity and respect, I'm also very accepting of all different kinds of people, so I can pretty much get along with everyone. I may act a little shy at first but once you get talking to me, you'll find out I have alot of knowledge and wisdom, so having exceptional conversations is my specialty. I also love to laugh and have a huge sense of humor, I enjoy finding humor in almost everything. I may be a little sarcastic here and there, but it's all in good fun.

As for some activities I'm into, first of all, I'm very passionate about music. My 2 favorite genres would have to be Electronic and Metal, but I don't just stop there, I'm into so much more. I've also been a keyboard player and amateur musician for well over 25 years, been in a couple of bands but mostly I record solo stuff. I'm also an amateur dj, music is my life! I'm also real keen into going to movies, dinner at a restaurant, walking, hiking, etc. I'm always trying to get exercise as much as I can, I also enjoy cooking and actually I make a much better baker lol. I just enjoy being at events with lots of people because I always enjoy making a new friend or 2. But then again, I do enjoy chilling at home, watching some movies or TV, my favorites would mostly be comedies and dramas, but also documentaries, and really becoming a history buff in my later years lol. Basically I'm a laid back open minded easy going person that wants to have fun and enjoy life.

So like I mentioned, I'm married, for close to 15 years now, with a 13yo daughter. Don't get me wrong, I love my family to death, and I'm not about to take off or anything, but here's the deal, my wife just started grad school, so basically I'm pretty much not going to see alot of her, which is fine because I understand the circumstances, but it still sucks for me, because I'll get super lonely and miss that human connection. So this is where you come in, I'm looking for a special lady friend, anywhere from 21-45, for a long term online relationship, where we would constantly communicate, get to know as much as we can about each, and maybe have some sexy fun every once in a while. For me looks are not what's most important, Personality and character are huge, and as long as you are a kind, decent human being, then it's all good with me. I think in general, all women are beautiful. But just also know that I'm pretty new to this, which is why I'm trying to include as much as I can here. So I would very much like to go into this as just friends first, and naturally progress from there. I've found it quite difficult to meet someone on here and then cease communication the very next day, so I must implore that if yr not super duper serious about getting into something like this, then don't bother, because you'll just be wasting your time and mine. I would just really like to see if I can still get that connection with another human being, it's been so long. So if you've made it this far, congrats! I look forward to any and all responses, and I thank you so much for yr time. Have a great day everyone! 😁