Let not kid ourselves here, we all know what we want. What we are looking for, it’s the same thing. Something that lasts more than 10 minutes. Something that you look forward too. Not where it seems to be a chore to actually reply. You have that feeling that you need to reply because it gives you that tingly feeling, that you’re connected with someone you care deeply about. Yes, that means I’m fully okay with “catching feelings” or as some put it falling in love. However you look at it. I want this to become something real, something lasting. If we feel comfortable, and are able to maybe even connect in person. Isn’t that what we are ultimately driving towards? Something tangible?

I’m not looking to change anyone’s current situation. I’m leaving my SO, I don’t want you to leave yours. We are all adults, we deserve to be happy and have what we want, what we need. And if we are not getting that currently we should be able to find it where we can, hopefully that’s together.

I’m 43/M from North Eastern US. I would prefer someone close to the same timezone EST so that we can connect easier. Also that would make it easier to meet in person if we feel that we need or want too.

About you I’m not picky, I enjoy woman for who they are. Both skinny and fluffy/chubby whatever you want to call it. I like to get to know someone, friends last them partner second. Makes the second part of them relationship more meaningful, and intimate.

Also please be available more than 9-5 M-F, it’s a shame that this needs to be said. Also discretion is necessary otherwise this won’t last, and we both want it to be more than an 5 minute fling. Messages with pics will be responded too quick than though without. And please try to say something other than hi. Low effort messages leads people to thing that the effort in the relationship will also be low effort. Why start off in the wrong foot?

I really hope to hear from you!