First and foremost, I am looking for an emotional affair. I want a girl I can talk to about anything from how our days were, to our deepest fantasies and desires. I know it takes time to get there, but if we click then I’m willing to put the time in.

As for you, please be willing to put the time in as well. I like to be able to chat all throughout the day, not just during working hours. This doesn’t mean you need to commit to being always online, just know that a few messages a day doesn’t cut it for me.

Please be able to hold a conversation. If your first message to me is just “Hi,” I will respond in kind. I’ll put in as much effort as I’m getting back. Mutual attraction is important to me, but I do like to talk for a bit to find out if we really click before pictures are exchanged. A description of yourself in your opening message would be appreciated.

I am in MST so please be in North America for time zone purposes. As for age, I tend to prefer a little bit younger than myself. Based on a lot of experience, my sweet spot seems to be in the 25- 30 age range, so bonus points if you're in or around that range.

As for the D/s part of my title, it isn’t something that has to happen right away, or ever, and it isn’t at all the real reason I’m here. But I think it’s worth mentioning that I have some experience being an online dom, and if the dynamic is something that you have experience with or have been interested in, then it is something we can talk about when the time is right.

Finally, a little bit about me. I’m mostly happily married, have two young kids and a dog. I have a professional/office based job and am available to chat pretty often. I want to be able to talk to you about the book I’m reading, that new band I just discovered (seems to be more rare the older I get), the funny meme I just found on Reddit, or whatever else happens to be going on in our lives!

I could go into more detail about myself but I need to leave at least a little mystery for you to uncover. If you think I seem like someone you might get along with (as an aside, isn’t it crazy how you can tell just from someone’s tone or the way they write if you’ll click?) then please introduce yourself and let’s get to know each other.