Are you a regular on the sub? Done some lurking… done some posting? Not new to having a sustainable OA relationship? Spent time here and spent time away? Able to hold a conversation with some relative intelligence? No disrespect to anyone at all, but nothing is more frustrating than two word answers spaced out several hours apart! Is trading pics early important to you? Not so much here, looks are subjective! Not everyone is everyone’s cup of tea! If that makes any sense at all? But someone who actually can chat and have something to share is so much more valuable! Please be close in age…. Close to 38 that is! And be married with kids. This is a pretty hard point for me! Find that someone in a similar situation is a heck of a lot easier to relate. Get tied up with the kids? I know the feeling! But also willing to share that time with someone to see if we can connect? It’s a complicated mess and I get it! But it’s exactly what I am looking for! You would think someone with a career and family would not want the added burden?!?! But it is just what I am looking for! Hopefully you too? Be kind out there OA sub! Best of luck to all…. Hope we all can make a connection!