About me:

I’m 44m, married, dad of 3, dad bod, saltnpepper hairy chest, clean beard.
I look masculine but I’m a soft, caring, teddy bear. I’m decently happy, well rounded, have goals, achieved most of my life’s goals, university educated, emotionally available, left leaning and employed in a female dominated industry. I am a natural caregiver, honest, Canadian (so polite) and very eager to please. I work a couple of night shifts a week so my schedule can be frustrating but I am always reachable. If you could be close to EST that would be best.

I like to cook, i’m an involved father, I like to cycle, collect comics, Jordans, and experiences. I like Marvel (xmen) stuff, scifi and fantasy. Like everyone else I love to travel and see live music and festivals. I can also be funny at times, dad jokes and the like but I can also swing and miss at some of my jokes, you can make fun of me when I do lol.

I am looking to shower someone with tons of attention, to absolutely adore. I am very eager to please! I have had my share of experience over the last 20 years maintaining long and healthy online relationships with only one recent negative experience.

I would say i’m a switch but lean submissive. Submissive doesn’t mean you’ll have to do all the work just that your satisfaction comes first. I have a backbone, I am my own person and value mutual respect and consideration of each others feelings but also wont let someone take advantage of me either.
I’ve had lots of experience being a caregiver dom, full of praise and encouragement but i’m mostly happy letting a woman be strong and dominant when she feels like it.

What I’m looking for:

An attractive confident woman who knows what she wants and isn’t afraid to ask for/take it.

Kink friendly to the front (yes I usually have multiple responses)

I want daily contact, I want to build a friendship and a relationship that makes the virtual intimacy and sexting incredibly hot and addicting. Talk about your day and mine, listen to your problems and be someone you can take your frustrations out on. I want to motivate you and build you up, I want you to be satisfied and fulfilled, both emotionally and sexually. I wouldn’t mind a bit of that too but I get off knowing you are getting off (no pun intended, double entendres are fun!).

I want to share pics/vids/voice notes so please be open to that. Even regular day to day stuff! Pics while out and about, animals seen on walks, selfies doing errands, anything that makes that connection more real and tangible.

I want something long term, feelings are great and encouraged.

Please be a decent communicator able to share thoughts and feelings, be able to keep the conversation and energy going or ill assume you’re not interested and don’t be someone who just wants to play games.

While I realize this is a bit ablest but please be decently mentally and emotionally stable. I love fixing a broken wing however it’s not what i’m looking for atm. I want to be vulnerable with you.

Fine print

If you ask basic questions that are in the thread title ill assume you’re a bot or scammer.
No findom or doxxers.
I prefer mail over chat but if things move well telegram/discord anyway.
Please verify, giving me the bird for expecting the basics would be a good way.