(Subs of all shapes, sizes and ages welcome!)

As the title suggest I’m looking for a connection, something where the depraved hidden parts of our lives and our vanilla can mesh and we can share them together.

I’m searching for more than just a sub or masochist, I seek the deepest parts of you successes, failures, wants needs, and what you crave sexually. And if you’re new to kink I want to help you learn and grow.

So about me I’m a 32 YO male dom who’s been in the lifestyle for over 10 years having had both online and IRL subs with experiences in ranging from vanilla to the extreme and everything in between.

Professionally I am a firefighter and paramedic so I can take care of you as well as use, abuse and torture you. I love my job it’s chaotic which is something I need in my work and it allows me the control I crave.

I would definitely describe myself as a man’s man, athletic build, and conventionally attractive with a great smile! I’m 5’8” with tan skin, black hair and brown eyes and your pic gets mine!

In my free time I love working out, love being outdoors and run and lift quite a bit. I spend time watching tv, playing games and working with my hands most other times.

I would consider myself a sadist dom. I love giving pain and mixing it with pleasure to create a very interesting dynamic. I enjoy degradation, humiliation, misogyny (but not for real) lol . I love edging, orgasm control, and denial mixed with pain making you choose between the two! I will post a list of the majority of my kinks but I love tons of praise, affection and aftercare for good girls.

Kinks include but are not limited to, Chastity, edging, orgasm denial, humiliation, degradation, gaslighting, free use, breast and nipple torture, impact play, pain, pussy and clit torture, anal, stretching and gaping, TPE, use, abuse, control, CNC, choking, slapping, spanking.

I like the idea of not just focusing on kinks but each other, our lives, likes, dislikes, opinions and anything else as I feel it deepens that connection!

I’d love to create an obsessive, intense connection with someone. Hope to chat soon!