I’m looking for a certain kind of girl, a girl with contrasts. One who is articulate and also can use four-letter words in a way that would make a porn star blush. A girl who is smart and has her own opinions, but at times would like nothing more than the right man to tell her what to do. A girl who would never accept being treated as unequal at work or socially, but finds fulfillment in kneeling and giving over control to me. The kind of girl I’m looking for has a good life, pursuing something important to her, but still has a certain lack. She is missing a place where she doesn’t have to be in charge and can stop thinking. She longs for a firm hand, to be used sometimes. But blushes to admit it.

I have my own contrasts. I’m respectable by all appearances. I blend right in most of the time. If you saw me at a restaurant or in an airport, you probably wouldn’t think twice about me. I help out my neighbors, I’m good at my job, I don’t cause trouble. I also long to have my hand wrapped around a girl’s throat. There are other contrasts. I can respect a girl while making her my whore. I can give her what she needs while making her cry in pain. I can make her feel that she is completely safe while challenging her to give more of herself.

I would like to develop a friendship that won’t be only sexual but would certainly include that. I want to get to know you. Learn your contrasts. What makes you tick. Give you a little secret that makes it easier to project that exterior. Create a space where we can exercise those inner desires. After all, without those, there are no contrasts. Only the surface. Let’s go beyond the surface.

I’m located in EDT. Prefer PM to start. Tell me about yourself.