Or is it like gathering a column of smoke? That's how it feels looking for an OAP. tl;dr at the bottom.

Confidence is sexy, I want stimulating conversations, intellect, humour, open minds and you will get those back in spades. I'm all heart and kindness deep down, but being neurospicy the filter doesn't always work and comes out weird.

Generally available to chat online throughout the day and night, voice messages can be fun. Love a good coffee and opening to sipping one in person. Duty does call and I have to do it around the school runs.

My love language is more about acts of service, but it's not to the exclusion of everything else. Craving for a connection, or just a simple touch.

Me: heading for the half century, dad bod but slim still. Have a sense of humour that could make the Sahara look like a lush rainforest. You know the saying, the flame that burns twice as bright burns half as long. I would rather a slower burn.

You: Could be in the same place in life, or maybe you want the cream on the cake. I am non-judgemental as long as we have some common ground. Don't mind a bit of curves.

tl;dr: Looking for the open-minded, the flirtatious, and the endlessly curious. Here to stir things up, not blow anything sky-high.