I'm lurking and replying on this subreddit for some time now. Also posted a couple of ads myself. Although I had some contacts I didn't found a real connection yet. But I'm hopeful and keep on trying!

Married, dead bedroom, feeling like strangers. 2 teenage kids. I love cuddling, snuggling up on the couch, holding hands. I miss the physical and emotional connection. Not looking to change situations. Just here to connect with someone in a similar situation. It starts with friendship but I want it to get bigger.

If you’re looking for a genuine, friendly, caring, down to earth man who can hold a conversation, who have plenty enough time for you, who genuinely wants to get to know you, I might be for you.

I'm looking for someone who is just a much interested in me as I'm in you, who want to be excited and who want to have someone to share your world with. Someone who is available to chat evenings and weekends and not just during work hours. We don’t have to chat all day every day but I prefer consistent communication. I talk a lot, but I'm also a good listener so I enjoy people who tell me about how their day went, their hobby's and their interests.

I'm 1.83m tall and 80kg. I have brown eyes, dark hair and a short trimmed beard. Happy to exchange pics early on.

I approach almost anything with enthusiasm. I'm an optimistic and confident person. I have an open mind and don’t judge. the ages definitely made me more patient. I like learning new things and work on self-improvement.

Activities besides work and family are: reading, music, netflix, boardgames, running, fitness, golf, spending time with friends, going to a pub.

You should be: 35-60, able to communicate well (not just one word messages), discreet. no physical or location requirements.

Thank you for reading this. If you think we are a match, send me a chat/message. Please add a little about yourself like age, location, interests. Please no low effort messages, that's not how I want to start this.

I look forward to reading your reply!