Obligatory "I'm married", 39, no kids, from the Midwest, and definitely a bit of a nerd. We're in an open marriage, but we're in a completely dead bedroom for the past 6-7 years and most days we barely talk to each other. Now that that's out of the way, let's get into it.

I am a PC gamer, watch a ton of Netflix, Disney , and YouTube in my spare time (which is pretty much every night). I'm extremely happy to geek out on Marvel, Doctor Who, Harry Potter, video game lore, and all sorts of other stuff that catches my interest. I also love to read, but recently I haven't found a series that has really captured my attention recently - even if I'm not someone you could see yourself with, if you have any good book recommendations I would love to hear them!

I grew up playing football and boxing, but I have been a bigger guy most of my life. Over the last few years I have been putting more focus on improving my health, both mentally and physically. I'm definitely struggling in areas still, but I'm starting to finally see glimpses of the person I used to be.

What I'm Looking For:

While I'm not trying to change either of our situations, I also very much do want to change my situations. If I were completely happy I wouldn't be here, right? I would love to find something long term and I am not even remotely afraid of catching feelings. When I fall I tend to fall hard.

I do not have any set "type" I'm looking for, but I tend to be most attracted to short, thick/curvy/BBW women. I have no preference on whether or not you have kids - my main concern is that you have time to actually talk every day. I prefer you to be MST/CST/EST. This isn' a deal breaker, I've just found that it tends to work out the best since I'm CST.

If you're a PC gamer, great! If not, that's okay. Just be fun and nerdy about something - we'll figure the rest out together. The only things I ask of you are that you have time to actually get to know someone and use either Discord or Telegram.