Obligatory "I'm married". I'm 39, no kids, from the Midwest, and definitely a bit of a nerd. We're in an open marriage, but we have been in a completely dead bedroom for the past 6-7 years and most days we barely talk to each other. Now that that's out of the way, let's get into why we're both here

I am a PC gamer, watch a ton of Netflix, Disney , and YouTube in my spare time (which is pretty much every night). I'm extremely happy to geek out on Marvel, Doctor Who, Harry Potter, video game lore, and true crime. I also love to read, but recently I haven't found a series that has really captured my attention recently - even if I'm not someone you could see yourself with, if you have any good book recommendations I would love to hear them!

I grew up playing football and boxing, and I have been a bigger guy most of my life. Over the last few years I have been putting more focus on improving my health, both mentally and physically. I'm definitely struggling in areas still, but I'm starting to finally see glimpses of the person I used to be.

What I'm Looking For:

While I'm not trying to change either of our situations, I also very much do want to change part of my situation. If I were completely happy I wouldn't be here, right? I would love to find something long term and I am not even remotely afraid of catching feelings. When I fall I tend to fall hard.

I do not have any set "type" I'm looking for, but I tend to be most attracted to short, thick/curvy/BBW women. I have no preference on whether or not you have kids - my main concern is that you have time to actually talk every day. I prefer you to be MST/CST/EST, as and that just tends to work out the best since I'm CST.

If you're a PC gamer, great! If not, that's okay. Just be fun and nerdy - we'll figure the rest out together. The only things I ask of you are that you have time to actually get to know someone and use either Discord or Telegram.