Obligatory "I'm married", but at this point we're basically just roommates. I'm 39, from the Midwest, no kids, and while we're in an open marriage, we're definitely headed towards divorce in the next year or two once she finishes grad school and we are in a better spot. I'm not looking for an escape affair, but I very much need to escape my life right now. Putting her to sleep was the hardest thing I've ever done and if I don't find someone/something to focus on, I'm going to go crazy.

I've never been big into sports outside of boxing and MMA, even though I grew up playing football. I am a PC gamer, watch a ton of Netflix, Disney , and YouTube in my spare time (which is pretty much every night). I'm extremely happy to geek out on Marvel, Doctor Who, Harry Potter, video game lore, and all sorts of other stuff that catches my interest. I also love to read, but recently I haven't found a series that has really captured my attention recently - even if I'm not someone you could see yourself with, if you have any good book recommendations I would love to hear them!

I grew up playing football and boxing, but I have been a bigger guy most of my life. Over the last few years I have been putting more focus on improving my health, both mentally and physically. I'm definitely struggling in areas still, but I'm finally starting to feel like the old me again. I miss having someone to funnel time and affection into - I miss feeling important.

What I'm Looking For:

While I'm not trying to change either of our situations, I also very much do want to change our situations. If we were completely happy we wouldn't be here, right? I would love to find something long term and I am not even remotely afraid of catching feelings. When I fall I tend to fall hard. I'm not looking for someone who's mostly happy at home and just wants a little "extra", as I don't know how well we'd really click.

I do not have any set "type" I'm looking for, but I tend to be most attracted to short, thick/curvy/BBW women. I have no preference on whether or not you have kids - my main concern is that you have time to actually talk every day. I prefer you to be MST/CST/EST, as and that just tends to work out the best since I'm CST.

If you're a PC gamer, great! If not, that's okay. Just be fun and nerdy - we'll figure the rest out together. The only things I ask of you are that you have time to actually get to know someone and use either Discord or Telegram.