I’m looking for a certain kind of woman. You’re intelligent and appreciate a well-turned phrase. You have passions and interests, and enjoy sharing them. Your life is good in most respects, and yet you find yourself wishing for a place where you can lay down your responsibilities for a while. Where you don’t have to be the one in control for a change. You wish for a firm hand at times, both figuratively and literally.

You desire the kind of treatment you don’t get at home. A man who doesn’t ask, but tells. Who doesn’t hesitate to tell you to get on your knees, or over his. A man who will take you in hand and teach how to be the perfect slut for him.

I’m looking for the kind of girl who will ask to be a good little slut for me, because that’s what she wants, but blushes when I make her say it out loud. One who secretly longs to hear those two little words: good girl. And will do what it takes to earn them.

I am looking for a girl who will be the right fit for something that can develop long-term. I want a genuine bond. Real feelings. Dominance doesn’t mean anything to me without that. I like frequent communication. I want to know what you’re doing and how you’re feeling. Share each other’s lives outside of D/s. It’s important that we can carry on a conversation about more than sex. A basis for friendship first before anything else. When it comes to that “anything else,” I take it slow. Let’s get to know each other; discuss what we want and don’t want. I’m in no hurry to give you orders and you should not be in a hurry to get them. The situation has to be right.

The mental side comes first for me. If I’m not attracted to your mind and personality, I won’t be attracted to your body. Yet I’m not going to pretend physical attraction doesn’t mean anything. It’s a factor, though not the most important one. I’m no model but I’m in pretty good shape and would like the same.

I’m in the US, Eastern Time. If this resonated with you, I invite you to send me a message (not a chat). Tell me about yourself and what you want.