Hey , yes you, the one who was curious enough to read my post. I'm an employed guy with a good job, knows how to cook, and likes to play video games. Yeah, I know it seems way too typical. I have been married for almost 8 years now to my best friend but I am really missing that spark and feeling of butterflies. I love the feeling of making a connection and the excitement of waking up and either sending or receiving a good morning text. I am not sure yet what I am looking for and I am honestly not sure yet how long I will still be married for and you need to be understanding about that.

A little about myself: I am 6' tall and about 250lbs. I'd say I hide that weight well but I am definitely not in shape. I would love to meet someone that could help motivate me to actually want to be my best self. I have hazel eyes and brown hair with some gray peppered in there but currently my hair is teal/blue. I work as a programmer but I am also very artistic and musical. My previous long term career was being a chef and as so I love to explore cultures through food. But for now, this is getting long...

TLDR:

Me:

• 6'0"
• 250lbs
• Brown hair naturally, blue/teal now and a short beard....I think I look pretty good 🤷‍♂️
• dad bod but not a dad, I would love to lose about 50 lbs
• chef, artist, but a programmer by profession
• Love playing a good videogames
• Love intimate connection and romance

You:

• 25-40
• I tend to prefer smaller and shorter women, but I am open to get to know anyone
• Has a good sense of humor
• Not religious though I don't judge
• Open to friendship, maybe more but willing to share a picture eventually since I will too.
• Knows an appropriate amount of time to text back, sorry but if it takes too long it may not be worth the effort to me

Let's leave the rest for the period we get to know each other. Just know friendship wise I am very open, I love to talk a lot, and I appreciate anyone willing to invest in me as much as I do in them. As for everything else, I am very open and can enjoy being quite sensual and open with the right person. Don't let that scare you off though, I am open to meeting all kinds of people I just really want a great connection whether it's a friend or more. Looking forward to talking. I am in the South East in the US and would prefer someone in North America but I'm definitely open.

If I don't answer right away, this is an alternate account for obvious reasons. After the first message I'll give you a quicker way to get in touch!