Let’s not let life pass us by, right? Over the past 2 years, I’ve been here on and off and chatted with some wonderful women, but I’m looking for something more specific this time. I would like to chat, share and find a spark with someone over the next few weeks and then potentially meet on 8/7 - 8/9 because the family will be out of town, then hopefully continue to be each others’ “person” thereafter. I’ve met people here once or twice before, but never had a chance for anything more extended or overnight. I am definitely ready and excited to do so now. I know forcing things rarely works, so it doesn’t necessarily have to be some passionate encounter (unless the feeling is right), but just something to look forward to!

This journey to find someone beyond my SO has to do with the desire to be seen. To show affection to someone who will appreciate and reciprocate. To be excited to face the day because we each know the other is out there facing it too. Let’s give each other that discreet glimmer in our eyes, and a small smile when a message notification comes through.

Let’s do things with each other we’ve always wanted to do, but know we never could with our significant others. Let’s share in that together, and make this something special.

A few things about me.. I’m 5’10”, 180 lbs, fairly athletic (I play tennis multiple times a week and I love hiking and staying active), a bit of a nerd (ST TNG and ATLAB are among my favorites), and I have a pretty strong career, but usually work from home. I am generally a stereotypical “nice guy” but honestly, I’ve been frustrated with the dead-bedroom situation and often fantasize about being a not-so-nice guy with someone who wants that. I’ve explored D/s as the dom in an online capacity and I really enjoy it. I am a dad as of about 1 year ago and absolutely love it.

I like thinking of situations and scenarios that might be fun to explore, but I’ve been in such a vanilla and low-intimacy relationship for so long with someone who just does not have interest or time for that kind of thing. I think I have gotten to the point where I need an outlet, so it’s a big plus if this excites you too.

If you’re somewhat local and looking for similar things, I’d be happy to hear from you!