I've been through this journey before, and while it hasn't always been smooth sailing, I've come to realize exactly what I'm seeking and needing in my life right now.

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In my marriage, I'm feeling a bit lonely and I yearn for someone to talk to, connect with on a deeper level, and share my days with. Ultimately, I desire a serious and long-term connection. I don't have the time to invest in multiple people, so finding someone who feels the same way about exclusivity is essential. I'm open to the possibility of meeting in person if things progress well between us.

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However, it's important for me to make it clear that I'm not here for just sexting or casual flings. If sex is the primary motivation for someone, I'm definitely not the right person for them.

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Communication is vital to me, and I prefer staying in touch regularly, including evenings and weekends. Being a night owl myself, it's convenient for me to connect with someone in the PST time zone.

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I'm specifically looking for someone from US/Canada and my preferred age range is 28 or older. I'm not interested in someone much younger, as I value maturity and life experience.

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Past experiences have taught me not to limit myself to a specific physical type, but I must admit that physical attraction still matters to me. I'm generally drawn to thicker women but above all, confidence is the most attractive quality.

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I have a soft spot for romance and a good sense of humor – surprising, right?

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A little bit about me: I'm 5'11 dark hair, I'm dark-skinned, I'm not ripped and on the smaller side of chubby. e. Regular trips to the gym are part of my routine, but my main motivation is maintaining my mental health. I'd love to find someone who appreciates and is attracted to my body type.

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As for my interests, I enjoy a diverse range of things: books, music, humor, science,, dry humor, good coffee, nature, video games, space, and collecting things that bring me joy.

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If you've read this far and are still interested, I'm impressed and flattered. Please don't hesitate to send me a chat and share why you think we might be a good fit. Feel free to include a safe-for-work (SFW) picture – no need to show your face if you're not comfortable with it. I'm excited to get to know you better and see where this connection might lead us.