I've got plenty of red flags, and as a Leo, thinking highly of myself is toward the top. But I've been doing this long enough to know that maybe that mentality isnt so far off base and I think with time, you would hopefully agree. I want to be the best partner you have ever had, I want to make you forget about everyone else.

Lets discuss why you are here in the first place.

Attention? I want all of yours and I want to give you all of mine. Time for another red flag - I'm needy. I will crave every bit of your attention, but I can be understanding of work and other responsibilities.

Yet another red flag - I'm obsessive. I will obsess over you and miss you when you are gone. I will want to know every little detail, you can never give me too much. Tell me when you are going to the store, tell me what you are cooking for dinner, fucking tell me when you are brushing your teeth, I'd even gladly watch. Send me allllll the selfies! I want to be your everything.

You want to feel desired? I will tell you every single day how sexy or beautiful or gorgeous or pretty or cute you are. I will tell you how hot you are in that new dress you bought or how good your makeup looks every day and how good your freshly painted nails look.

You want to feel appreciated? You do so much at work and at home, you deserve to be recognized for your efforts. This plays into me craving your attention. Tell me all the things you do so I can make you feel appreciated for them. You work, you cook, you clean, you take care of the kids and all you fucking want is a little appreciation. Thats not too much to ask.

You want good conversation? Like actual conversation, not just sex talk all the time. I get it, I have plenty of hobbies and I know that you do too. Maybe we arent into the same things, but we can still learn about each others hobbies and chat about alllll the things. I can hold my end of the conversation, I just need a good partner who can hold their end.

But of course you still want the naughty stuff. Maybe you have a dead bedroom, maybe you want to explore some kinks. Same...same... Dont worry you are in good hands with me. We can go at whatever pace you are comfortable with, I dont expect things, I earn things. We dont have to be naughty all the time, or even every day or whatever, but trust me, we will have a lot of fun together.

Finally, you just want someone who gives a shit. Dont we all? Someone that we can tell everything to, someone you want to tell when something exciting happens, someone you cry to when you are sad. Someone who actually listens to you, not someone who wants to dump all their shit on you, but is suddenly busy or silent when you want to vent to them.

Hey. I give a shit and you deserve me. Let me be your everything.

39, married, no kids, cst. Unfortunately I am mostly available 8-5 cst. but I can check in a bit in the evenings. Weekends are hit and miss on availability. But trust me, I make up for my lack of availability in the evenings by giving you my everything during the day. Did you know that on telegram you can schedule messages to send at a later time? So even though I might not be available in the evening, wouldnt it be so nice to have a scheduled message pop up to let you know I'm thinking about you?

Also, an attraction is important to me. I want to be attracted to you and I want you to be equally attracted to me. I like to send lots of pics and videos and things and I want to know they are wanted and you like what you see.

If you made it this far and this speaks to you, I hope you send me a message.