I want to be on your mind, I want to be who you think about in the morning and the last thought you have before falling asleep. I want to be the person you can share your best news with, and who you turn to when you're having one of your worst days.

I am married and no longer have that emotional connection that I crave, it makes me feel lonely. I assume you are the same situation but shouldn't be looking to change either our situation, just give each other that spark that's missing in our hearts. I'm in a dead bedroom, but if you're not or not looking for that type of relationship that's fine too. I feel like a sexual relationship should develop naturally, but first and foremost I'm looking for a friend and confidant.

About me: I'm 5'8", brown hair, blue eyes, a few extra pounds on me but working on that. I'd say my looks are fairly average if that matters to you at all and I'd be happy to send pics. I don't have kids, was never able to have any of my own, I work full-time but I have a decent amount of time throughout the day for messages and I also have difficulty sleeping so I'm usually up most of the night so time zones don't really matter to me.

About you: I'm interested in the long term, I don't want just to message for a night, or a week. I know you have a life, I don't expect messages 24/7 but if you can only send maybe 2-3 messages per day of just small talk, maybe we're not quite right for each other.

Also we're both adults here so let's respect each other's time, please don't ghost, I won't ghost you, if we don't hit it off, let's just be honest with each other and wish one another good luck on our search.

So if you're still reading this, send me a chat with your favorite color and time zone. I hope to hear from you soon! And I wish everyone good luck in their search for a partner.