Someone posted earlier “why is something that should be so easy also Mr so hard?” That definitely hit me, and made me think. Is it because we have sky high expectations? Do we think that we’re one post away from having that special person come into our life? Either way we keep coming back, and hoping for better results.

I’m married, a dad to one, educated, a career that allows me to work from home, and a marriage that has developed into a roommate situation. Our bedroom is dead, and our intimacy is non existent. This is where you come in.

Not looking to change each others situations, or turn someone’s life upside down. What I am looking for is someone to laugh with, smile with, and most importantly connect with. Anything sexual will naturally develop, and that’s not what I’m looking for right off the top. Let’s be the best part of each others day, be that person that can cheer up a bad day, and be that person who can ignite the excitement for life again.

I’m 5’10. Brown hair, brown eyes, average build, and I’m totally rocking one dimple. I’m half white, and half Mexican so I’m a whitexican. You get the best of both worlds with me. My white side will buy you starbucks, and my beaner side will mow your lawn. I look pretty young for my age (minus the bags under my eyes.) I survive off of coffee, love baseball, and music gives me life.

Please be in a similar situation, married, with kids (not a deal breaker if you don’t) and have the ability to pursue this. Being in the PST helps. But, open to all US time zones. I work from home, and I’m available past 9-5, nights, and weekends. Also, please be available for phone calls, and video chats. I’m not here for a texting buddy. Let’s exchange pictures early on, and if we hit it off let’s move off of here.

I’m looking for one AP, and ready to put all my effort into them. Please, if you have any intention on ghosting then don’t waste my time. Let’s vent about our spouse but not trash them. I look forward to hearing from you.