Hey! Yes you..you thought about it, so go ahead and read this posting. First thank you for scrolling by. ( possible trigger warning) It often a mystery to know what clever combination of word salad to put here to draw the attention of the few women here. I have noticed most of the women's postings are strict,orderly and to the point. Most of the postings from thirsty boys are ..if you are F4M,and have a pulse,breathing,and at least one finger to text with,( judging from some of them this may be negotiable) Nevertheless, if you are reading along, if you are looking for an older,mature married man and are tired of all the boys begging for your attention. I would like to chat. If you are seriously looking for ONE person to chat with.( not juggling 6 different conversations on any given day). If you have the time to put effort into it.( actually have ongoing conversations, not one or 2 words a day) .( obviously understanding we both have family,work,and other responsibilities) We are adults, just say when you are busy,and cant chat. If you are willing to move off of reddit as soon as possible. If you are looking for a slightly bent,few bubbles off plumb friend, i would like to chat. Personally what you look like is not all that important to me, obviously understanding without mutual attraction this whole effort is suspect. I know real women have curves, and imperfections, that is what makes a woman real. ( i am not Clark Gable myself, probably more along the Clark Griswolds cousin Eddy actually) I think most of us are looking for the same situation, online,ongoing,open no limit conversations. Be the reason each other sneaks away to send that next text, be each other's secret friend. So, if you made it this far and are still reading this, what have you got to lose? Hopefully hear from you soon.😈