I am Jacob. I’m searching for an OA partner. Aren’t we all. I am 29 years old and on the cusp of thirty, I’ve realized that I really want this in my life.

Background info: I am 6’2, athletic sort with long curly, dark brown hair past my shoulders that I usually wear in a bun, but can show you it down if you ask nicely. I have green eyes, a beard, and a few freckles that should become more prominent soon as we venture into summer in the Northern Hemisphere. I am an attorney with a private practice in the Northeast and work from home.

What I’m looking for is a partner that wants to be there for each other for chatting and more. I am open to pictures, voice, camming, and the likes. I prefer someone who is also into these things. My schedule is a bit unpredictable as to when I can have large chunks of time, but I always communicate daily. I have an affinity for curves and a soft spot for redheads (like all of the M4F posts). If you wear D size bras, we will be immediately compatible. The bigger…the better.

I want to find someone who is adventurous and wants to explore their sexuality with me. Seeing what makes us tick and what really gets us going. I’ve been with my partner since I was 19 and feel I have missed out on many of the things I now realize excite me most. I know this is likely a common circumstance here, so don’t hesitate to send a DM or chat with something you’ve come to realize makes you tingly that you haven’t had a chance to explore due to your relationship.

I like to write and long messages excite me, but also love quick chats back and forth. I want something in the longer term, so I hope you do too!

I am very, very into music, so if you want to nerd out on that, let me know.

If you want to give it a go, send a message and include your favorite Grateful Dead live performance. If you’re not into the Dead, that’s fine, send your favorite concert going experience you’ve had in the last 5 years.

xo, Jacob