Hihi everyone :3 I’m a 29y/o switch/middle from Omaha, Nebraska ! I’m horrible at these so let’s get to it:

Demographically, I’m an average height white dude (5’9-5’10) with dark brown hair and beard and brown eyes.

I have a dad bod but I’ve been working out a lot recently and actually am pretty proud of the definition showing up in my shoulders and calves lately. I didn’t always have a dad bod but I had some bad health issues when I was a teenager and now I’m doing my best to undo all the damage that was caused to my body.

I’m neurodivergent, too. Aside from my ADHD (medicated and functioning well) and that I have super bad anxiety (meaning my emotional and physical senses are extremely heightened, which is good and bad for relationships) l also am a bit of a scatterbrain so I sometimes need to have the obvious pointed out to me, like when someone is flirting with me.( you wouldn’t believe how many time I’ve thought people were just being friendly)

Now that the scary stuff that would turn people away is listed, if you’re still reading, onto the fun parts 🥹

Im an assistant site lead at a car wash. In do hope one day go to collage and get a degree for a higher paying career, but at this moment that option is not in the cards for me . Because of the stress of my work, it’s one of the reasons why I’m a little. Being able to turn the brain off and have someone else in charge is such a massive need for me because my job really takes it out of me sometimes. Being smol helps forget about that, gives me a safe place to be my carefree self, and is a great distraction that allows myself to decompress before I have to do it all over again.

I am pretty submissive by nature as well. My job is the only exception but it is so draining mentally because it’s really not who I am. I’m shy, introverted, and need structure and guidance to thrive. I have anxiety in crowds and being able to hide behind my person as my hand is held and things get taken care of is a dream.

As for hobbies, I love music. Specifically metal and punk rock, as well as just make up songs I think of on the fly when I get a beat stuck in my head. I listen to rock/alternative/indie/punk and some EDM, pop, jazz, classical, I mean it’s really all good, only thing I can’t stand is country music( I grew up having to listen to it every day and now I hate it with a burning passion) I’m a huge nerd and I love video games, comic,anime,manga,DnD and learning new stuff specifically about history as it’s always fascinating to learn local legends. I love to build Lego sets and color coloring books, but I like trying to make them look super detailed I love being talked to as well so please please feel free to tell me all about you!

Onto the kink stuff:

I’m into: cg/l, dd/lb, md/lb, TPE, somno (receiving), facesitting, denial, bondage, shibari, edging, exhibitionism, public play, s/m, watersports, forced regression, abdl, and more.

I’m a HUGE slut for praise and positive affirmations, inside and outside the bedroom. I will melt into a puddle every time. So also a praise kink lol.

I’m curious about: chastity, overstimulation, sensory deprivation, and estim

Hard limits are: blood, scat(outside of diapers), cutting, needles, rape play and extreme beating ( this is NON NEGOTIABLE,) I’m either not into them or have trauma behind them. If you message me, tell me your favorite cartoon in your message so I know you read this far

I’m looking for a soft mommy/domme or a dom daddy if you couldn’t tell by the kinks and limits. One who I can look into their eyes as they hold my chin and just feel the love, vulnerability, and sense of security in. Someone who isn’t afraid to take charge, who loves the protective role, who babies me and treats me as their one and only.

In return, I will do the exact same for you. I love seeing the positive impact I have on people, whether that’s making them smile, giving them encouragement, making them feel loved and cared for just as much as they do me. It’s such a fuzzy and fulfilling feeling and I love it so much. I am looking for a LTR, which means I cannot stress enough how much I want someone who can communicate. I fully understand that my mommy is my girlfriendand partner first, with her needs and wants just as important and valid as my own. Let me take care of you when you’ve had a rough day, when you’re sick, let me hold you when you need it and take control when you can’t. At the end of the day, we’re both human. Prioritizing the bond we have, and the safety and well being of each other, is more important than you feeling the need to repress feelings out of fear of a negative response.

I am a hopeless romantic who falls too fast and trusts too quick. I wear my heart on my sleeve and sometimes have trouble expressing emotions because of how intense I feel them, so I ramble a lot and having someone be able to empty the brain and understand me is a dream. The desire to make them happy, make them feel loved and safe, and be able to feel that back is unimaginably strong.

I may be smol but that doesn’t mean I won’t treat you like a princess either >:(

There’s so, so much more about me that I haven’t typed here. If you read this far, it means a lot and I’m glad I kept your interest.

please reach out, id be happy to meet you. And I have no problems with trans women, I think they are wonderful and are valid!

I have discord, snap and other methods of communication but please send a message here first 🩷

I hope I caught your attention and look forward to meeting you. Thanks for reading this!! :)