Why on earth would I seem attractive enough for you to approach me, with thoughts of future love possibly to mind?

Short of using my extensive psychology training over six months of therapy, I can't actually know that answer. However, I'm meticulous in fostering all the manly & gentlemanly virtues women seek; I'm approachable, friendly, likable, fun, firm & authoritative when required and delight in loving, cherishing & adoring my partner. Further, I have learned the secret of creating and maintaining the 'perfect' relationship, a secret I'll share, allowing you and I to become as one, to become soulmates and kindred spirits. These are aspects womankind seems to value highly.

Otherwise, I'm just an ordinary, no-frills, genuine dad-bod guy, with a comfortable location and situation, which I want to share with an appreciative real woman. I'm not looking for sugar or similar, so, don't waste our time if that's your thing. I always call-out bullshit ~ be warned!

I'm not over-interested in the sex thing, although I've a healthy enthusiasm, attentiveness and capability in satisfying my partner. While awaiting surgery to cure my 'hydraulics', I'm mainly looking for the snuggles, cuddles, snogging and your pleasure... the sharing, togetherness thing.

I'm retired, neither rich, nor poor and value sapiosexuality very highly. I'm blunt as fuck and utterly honest, which are attributes I expect returned. I also require significant alone-time fairly regularly. I do have one or two physical frailties, including a transfemoral amputation and the permanent excruciatingly painful affliction of fibromyalgia [requiring a wheelchair for traveling, etc.] You'll thus need be limber and strong!

Read my prior postings on this Reddit to discover how/why I'm different and my preferences for the kind of lady I'd like to settle down with. You must be up-to-speed with my previously disseminated information if you wish to retain my interest.