Looking for someone in Europe (or EU citizen/wants to move there) and interested in a relationship first and foremost to match with:)

To start off with to not waste anyone time just scrolling through, values and preferences! I'd like the person I'm with to feel as loved and wanted as possible and I found that I'm most attracted to feminine thin/slim girls who wear their heart on their sleeves, so if you're into alt fashion or cosplay that's a big plus!

I would also like to focus on just "us" and I'm looking for someone who really wants and treasures companionship and wants their partner to be their best friend and lover. In my case this means that doesn't want kids, does drugs, have pets and so on. I'm not into those things (or well I'm indifferent) and I feel those kinds of things put distance between each other in the relationship if both partners aren't fully passionate about them. I'll admit I also would just prefer someone more on the clingy side because I like to feel wanted and love to make others feel wanted and heard as well. Giving/receiving undivided attention is a big deal to me as I'm a quality time kind of guy.

Hobby wise I'm interested in a lot of things, especially nerdy stuff. I'm very much a homebody but I've been getting into racket sports lately (table tennis/pickleball/padel). When it comes to conversation starters I'll always appreciate conversations that go into: Mental Health/Psychology, Tech/Gaming (VR/Simracing lately)/Documentaries/Reading/Computing, Anime, Voice acting/Sound Engineering/Music prod, Cooking/Health/Self-Improvement/Gym & DIY (3d printing) and so on

Some of you reading the title will want to definitely know more about that aspect but I don't really have a fixed kinklist because it depends on who I'm with. Mind you I started dating at 25 and mostly online so I'm still a virgin if that matters. There's people that like praise or compliments while others teasing or bullying or name calling and rougher stuff and such. As the title implies though I'm more of a flexible soft dom which means I don't mind being a lil rougher with time as I get to know you but of course safe, sane and consensual applies and I'm no sadist.

Some random ideas I always wanted to explore:

• Praising/Teasing/Conditioning, I can give you a headpat fetish and get you to enjoy doing all sorts of stuff like chores that you otherwise wouldn't as well as making you a good girl craving for more.

• Hypnosis/brainwashing and anything psychology related also sounds fun as we'll probably be online only for awhile and I'd like for things to feel as real as possible plus I like intellectual stuff

• TPE/Dollification/PetPlay and anything involving ownership, collaring and loyalty, devotion and protection or dressing up and princess treatment.

• DDLG CGL (if you have a non sexual little-space tell me!) however I'll admit I don't really have much experience with age regressors and I might not be the best fit if you get non-verbal as I'm a bit overexplainer. I do like giving structure and I think I'm good at organisation/management stuff however

• Light pain/rigging/impact play/cnc (can't do this online but I have VR if that's the next best thing)

This should be plenty for now so if anything caught your interest do not hesitate to message me! Thanks for your attention and good luck in your search for love^{^}