What I’m looking for

I’m seeking a younger woman in the Boston area who desires a committed dynamic with a focus on service, submission, and exploration. I don’t have many requirements aside from those fundamentals.

For me, this is not about finding someone to do specific erotic activities with. I care far more about finding a person with the right attitude and libido. I’m seeking a person who craves creativity, structure, and guidance in their sexual life. I thrive with someone who wants to learn my most intimate desires and how to fulfill them with precision.

I enjoy being in charge of the experience and responsible for the pleasure of both parties. I enjoy navigating around soft boundaries in ways that are consensual and cherished. I crave a partner who has complete trust in me. I want you to feel the genuine care I have for your well-being and pleasure.

My preference is to grow a dynamic that extends outside of the bedroom. I always appreciate having cool people join me in my various hobbies and adventures. At a minimum, I expect we can enjoy meals together.

About me

I’m 5'8" tall, fit, bearded, and live alone in my own well curated home. I’m a software engineer by profession and an avid community organizer in my free time. I have a variety of hobbies that include: cycling, board games, gardening, travel, powerlifting, billiards, and volunteering.

I have years of experience with various kinky activities and BDSM dynamics. Some examples of this experience include: explicit D/s protocol and rules, complex rope bondage (including suspension), slut training, anal training, impact play, objectification, degradation, humiliation, and plenty of other staple kink activities.

Final Notes

I expect mutual respect, reliable enthusiasm, and strong communication skills. Despite my ever-increasing intuition, I still can’t read minds. It is essential that you are confident and comfortable in expressing what you do and don’t like. I’m happy to help timid or inexperienced partners work on this. Consent doesn’t work without ongoing conversation.

I have some flexibility when it comes to gender fit. If you don't explicitly identify as a woman but are otherwise interested, feel free to reach out.

If you think we’re a good fit, DM me a brief description about yourself and what you're looking for. I’m pretty flexible with what I’m attracted to, so don’t hesitate to message if it doesn’t look like a perfect match.