-im at a point in my life where i’d love to connect with someone and date long term, with the goal of marriage down the line in 4-5 years. i have so much love to give, and i want to give my life to my husband. to cook, clean, dote and devote myself to him. im childfree and dont want kids ever, so my partner would have to align with me on this. i ideally would want to be leashed and collared as my mans submissive.
-i want to be a free use stay at home wife. i have many kinks and desires as well as limits that i’ll share at the end of my post. i just want someone who wants a woman to be his best friend, his confidant, whore, cheerleader, cook, maid, and wifey.
-im 5'5, slimthicc/curvy/busty with thick thighs and a booty. im a size 8/10, not overweight, long wavy/curly dark brown hair, hazel eyes, pale skin, HWP. ive been told im a babe and i think im a solid 5.5. would prefer to exchange sfw pictures up front. im also down to exchange soft nsfw pics if we catch a vibe.
-i have trauma and daddy issues and seek a man who is kind, patient, and understanding when it comes to mental health (i have bpd).
-im a regular cute-looking girl, not a model type. life has been hard to me and its made me headstrong and bratty. i have some grey hairs and i look my age. if you’re looking for a meek docile 19 year old then thats not me. im bold, bratty, sexy, grown, intelligent, independent, submissive, and spontaneous. im excited by the prospect of building a life with someone and veryy eager to please. i seek someone who appreciates me as a whole person.
-i want a man who will provide, take the lead, and guide me in our relationship. i want him to be the decision maker, while still valuing and respecting me and seeking my input. i want to learn from my dad and look up to him. the mental aspect of the power exchange is what i crave from a partnership. im a smart girl, but i always stand to learn from daddy.
-im very left politically and hope you are too. not a dealbreaker, but baseline values must align, ie what elon did recently was disgusting.. if you disagree we’re not a match
-im a career professional, live alone with my 3 kitties, and am hyper independent. i am tired of living this way and am ready for a change.
-big on hygiene. i own a bidet, shower daily, and stay hydrated
-i dont drink or use tobacco/nicotine, but im 420 friendly. im not religious.
-im slavic and bilingual. US citizen
-would love to relocate eventually to a different city. would love to live outside the US as well.
-i eat clean and care about nutrition and living a healthy lifestyle and want a partner that seeks the same. im gluten free but enjoy dairy and meat still, who can give up cheese and steak?!
-what i seek in a partner - character wise:
-kind, emotionally available, likes animals and cats specifically, goofy and genuine, values quality time, dominant in the bedroom and also playful and fun generally speaking, hard working, generous, loyal as hell, not big on social media, ideally open to having a vasectomy down the line so i can go off BC without fear of pregnancy, wants a wife who is a fiercely devoted partner thats introverted around others but bubbly as fuck around him, values solo time and time with friends but misses me when away hehe, likes to travel and wants to spend his life exploring with his wifey when possible, doesnt want kids
what i seek in a partner -physically:
-athletic/fit/slim, handsome/conventionally attractive, hung (not a dealbreaker but at least 6” preferred), 5’8 and up, smells good, i prefer peach fuzz (dont like long beards), don’t like men with long hair but will date a bald king anytime!, and someone who dresses well
KINKS:
-praise and degradation
-self degradation
-submission
-misogyny
-breeding (only as a kink, not real life)
-soft exhibitionism (being recorded/displayed)
-body writing
-bimbo play
-being in a dumb and brainless subspace
-age play (can i call you dad/father and can you call me kiddo while inside me? 🥺)
-spit play
-free use
-anal
-size queen - not a dealbreaker tho
-pet play (make me oink/bark)
-cock warming
-TPE
-Ddlg
-getting groped/fondled
-face fucking
-shibari
-packofilia
-squirting
-choking (not intensely tho just normally. im not trying to pass out)
-being my partners daily stress relief
LIMITS:
-The only type of “punishment” im okay with open hand spanking on my booty. besides that i dont want to be flogged or hit or caned or any of that. and in general i dont really want to be punished tbh. what gets me off in bdsm is the mental turn on of submitting to my man. its the power dynamic. and within that submission i wanna experience pleasure, not pain.
-no slapping
-i dont want to touch, finger, eat, peg, or play with my partners ass in any way. not my thing
-no scat, blood, toilet stuff or golden showers
-no race/animal play
-no weight commentary or fat shaming
-im unsure about cnc but open to trying it if its what my man wants to explore
-no fisting
-no outside objects besides a dildo penetrating me. like im not about to fuck a beer bottle
-no public obscenity
-no edging, i wanna be made to cum not prevented from it. i dont need to edge to yearn for your cock.. im mentally ill, its a packaged deal, lol.
please reachout respectfully. any messages that are crass and crude won’t be responded to. lets just start off by having a regular conversation and getting to know each other as people :)
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