Looking for fwb but ultimately something long term. Someone that clicks on all levels where ultimately we can't wait to text each other and see each other. I have yet to find that balance both personally and sexually it's always been one or the other.

*5'7 fairly athletic. Bonus if you run, cycle or swim. I'm always looking for a cycling or running partner. Wen from obese, 210lbs to 140lbs, to super fit 3 years ago then went through divorce and a lot of other shit and gained about 20 lbs back and in the process of getting back down to 140/145

*Outdoorsy, hiking, exploring. Finding all the nooks and crannies of the woods, small towns and cities.

*Somewhat nerdy, Sci fi, horror, but my range of movies and music is vast. Anything from jazz, hip hop to metal. Very small slice of what I'm currently listening to, Snarky Puppy, Sleep Token, 7 Hours after Violet, Manchester Orchestra and a ton of others

*Quirky, dark sense of humor that usually doesn't come out till I get to know someone

*Cuddling and touch are very important to me. I can be the most passionate, caring person but also explore the much darker side of being dominate, choking, slapping, cnc, etc. Love a woman that can swing from passionate to submissive

*I can provide recent test papers to prove I'm clean

*If you're attached thats fine and can be discreet but ultimately would like something long term

*Divorced, no kids. Currently getting out of a relationship, still live together only because cost of living is so damn expensive

*Maybe it's your first time or curious what it would be like with an older guy. Maybe it's your tenth time. Doesn't matter! Age is just a number! I know quite a few people with small and large age gap relationships that have made it work so it is possible.

Thanks for reading all the way through and as usual no cake!