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No red-voters. Must be over 21 at an absolute minimum and live in or within reasonable distance of SoCal, as this is for IRL. Simple responses just saying things like ‘hey’ will be ignored. Read this entire post, and if you’re interested, show me so by responding as instructed.

I’m a SWM (no kids) in Ventura, 6’2, 195, 8”, very intelligent, broad-shouldered and muscular with an intimidating and charismatic physical presence, rugged and masculine (and more than secure in my masculinity), self-aware, patient, completely self-assured, and I know exactly what I like and what I want.

I’m an assertive, strict and commanding, naturally Dominant Master looking for a submissive woman (mid-20s to mid-40s) to be in a monogamous relationship that would involve the delicious dichotomy of genuine affection and connection with you being sexually objectified.

While it would be sexually based, I’m not looking for a relationship that is only sexual. If I’m attracted to you, I’ll want to be around you, and I’ll want to spend time with you, whether it’s eating together, watching movies and series together, sleeping together, whatever it may be.

I’m not looking for sluts, or women that like seeing multiple guys. I’m a one-woman guy, and I like demure, classy women, the more feminine, the better. The more mature and intelligent you are, the better. While I do like the physical bimbo look and body, I have no interest in airheads, party girls, or any kind of influencer.

Admittedly, I can be superficial when it comes to attraction. I’ve always enjoyed the company of attractive women, and if that makes me arrogant, so be it. I like attractive women with alluring bodies. The heart wants what it wants.

And while there would be expectations of you, immediacy wouldn’t be one of them. I’m not a guy that expects - or needs - to meet right away and/or have sex right away. I want to get to know you first. I’m very assertive and aggressive, yes, but I’d always be making sure you’re perfectly comfortable moving forward, and I’d never expect you to do anything you’d ever be the least bit uncomfortable with.

Sexually, I’m very rough, forceful, and vulgar. I overpower and manhandle. I grab and pull hair. I grip and squeeze flesh. I spank. I growl into your ear and call you all sorts of things. I talk very dirty throughout and make you reciprocate the vulgarity.

No experience is necessary. I’m very capable at breaking you in and training you if you’ve never done this sort of thing before.

I like slender or in-shape (but not skinny) figures. Long hair. Big tits preferred but not required.

I’m not into BBWs or bratty types, and any kind of smoking or vaping, including 420, is a dealbreaker. I’m not ever interested in talking politics except to say that I’m very definitely Pro-Choice.

I play baseball on weekends in adult leagues, and you’d come to as many of my games and tournaments as you could.

If you’re interested, describe yourself physically and tell me what turned you on and made you want to respond. Be bold and expressive. Don’t worry about saying too much. Impress me with your wantonness. If you’re going to send pics, DO NOT SEND ANYTHING NAKED. Just normal pics, but you want me to find you attractive, so show me your face and body.

If I’m interested, I’ll take it from there. If I’m not, I’ll let you know. I wouldn’t just ghost you.