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41 [M4F] #Chicago - Looking for someone to see the world with and to hopefully come home to
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djdoug is a male age 41 looking for a female in Chicago, IL
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Hello Ladies,

My name is Doug I am a flight attendant and looking for someone that could be forever. Someone that wants to travel the world with me and that wants me to be their person.

A little about me. I am a flight attendant that loves to travel (Obviously my job kinda requires it). I also love thrills. I love riding roller coasters and have ridden over 400. Hopefully someday I’ll get that number up a little more. I also love thrills and adventures. I want to get back into skydiving but that might be something in the future. I also enjoy just curled up in bed watching movies or playing video games. I got a switch a while back now and have started to use it more. I am not too picky when it comes to food and love spicy food. You dont have to like spicy food and I can make plenty of things that are not.

Now for the baggage. We all come with it so I might as well throw it out there. I am divorced and have a kid. My wife and I got divorced last year after a while of me trying to save the marriage (even though she had the affair). We have an 8 year old daughter (9 in a few months) and we share custody of her. So I’ll also point out that I am NOT looking for someone to be my daughter’s new mother. She has a mother and I would never take that away from her. I am looking for a partner for me. Now obviously eventually when I introduce a new partner to my daughter I would absolutely hope that my new partner and her can be friends. The other three pieces of baggage are that 1. I am fixed so I cant give you any children, 2. I dont know that I am up for marriage again. With all the crap that my ex wife put me through I find it hard to think about ever puttin myself in that position again. While I say that I do realize that its still a possibility and I might change my mind but I might not I guess if I found the right woman maybe. And 3 the hardest pill to swallow. I am stuck in roselle, IL. In our divorce agreement in an effort to prevent my ex from just moving away and me having to follow my daughter I had it put in that both parties would reside in roselle IL unless both parties agreed to a move.

So after all that I am sure no one is reading this but on the off chance that you are thats great.
I am hoping to find someone for a real relationship. Something that will be long term something that could be forever. I have done some thinking over the past few months and I am hoping to find someone that gets a smile on their face from a good morning text. Someone that also likes to text me good night and just genuinely wants to be my person. Being single sucks. Having the ability to travel the world for cheap/free is amazing but not having anyone to go with all the time sucks. Be my person and travel the world with me:)

I am going to add some pictures of me right here:)

I really hope that you are out there reading this and I hope to hear from you
Doug

PS. Please be 18 or older.

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