hi! I'm writing this out because I'm happy with almost all aspects of my life, where I live a very chill day to day, work doing a job I enjoy, and while I'm not loaded, I'm happy to not have to think about the end of the month. If my title makes sense to you and you know exactly what I'm saying, please read on!

I'm here (as I hope many real women on here that browse are too), because I'm looking for that younger woman that is looking for something long term, with someone that loves conversation (as much as I do), that wants to spend time with me (fine starting online, but I need this to be in person sooner than later) doing things we both enjoy, and knows this is what she wants. I am tired, absolutely exhausted, of all the women I have had conversations with over the years that (and I do consider those past relationships successful!) keep changing everything I knew about them on me and leaving me to start over from step 1. If you know what you want and want to get it, read on!

Since I know that attraction matters (and I'd hope for the same in return), this is me in my 6'1, hispanic soft-ish dominant (this means, that no, for the hundredth time, I don't want to be your sub) glory: https://imgur.com/a/6IOSu8Z

If still here after seeing the picture, this is what I'm looking for!

• A younger woman (I don't care if the gap is small, but this is important to me because I spent my 20s with older and I'm over the egos and age held over me for the wrong reasons. I worked hard to be where I am now, so it's my turn to go get what I want).
• Someone talkative! I really enjoy voice and video calls, and doing activities during these calls. I have nothing to hide, and while I don't need these often, I don't want to not have them at all, either.
• Someone open to biological children. I want to be a great, loving dad as my parents were to me. I have the means to handle it and I want to find someone seeking similar.
• Someone open to relocation. Again, I've worked hard for what I have to be able to offer this. You will not have to worry long term about me, but I have done the moving thing once and, well, I can't drag my house with me.
• Someone open to marriage. I'm not religious per se (though I grew up with it), but I want to be monogamous in every way and this is something I've dreamt about.
• Someone open to sharing a sfw photo (of yourself, not of someone else please!). This means that I would like to see a full, sfw photo. I've put myself completely out there, so I would love to see and not have to leave anything up to the imagination (angles wise) who I'm talking to. I do however admit, that I am an opposites attract kind of guy, so I do have an attraction to someone white, asian, european, chinese, korean, but since I've dated all sorts (white, black, etc), this isn't a hard dealbreaker.

As for what I actually want a relationship to look like? To me, that's someone who enjoys being equally nerdy just as much as someone who likes being taboo. For example, I'm into:

• Mutual degradation when it comes to age gaps. I love being "degraded" for being the older man (even if I'm not actually that much older), so if you're into ddlg/cgl and are comfortable in a sexual little/middle space, front of the line! Happy to explain further, though I am open to like, literally anything in this regard!
• Someone that believes that a relationship should be free flowing. While I do NOT want to be sexual off the bat necessarily, I want to know that there's at least an openness to talking about intimacy at some point since chemistry does matter (and I'd like to find out sooner rather than later after invest 2-4 months just to realize it isn't there)
• While I'm happy to go on, I of course really really want to spend quite a lot of time enjoy sfw things together, but I don't want to make this much longer than it needs to be, heh. I'd love to talk more about myself beyond what I share on here (and learn about you) privately!

I understand its a little direct to make a detailed post like this, but I've been having to search for as long as I have because it seems finding someone on the same page is excruciatingly difficult and I am just trying to save us both time.

Otherwise, to share more about me, I'm a pretty nerdy dude with a tech job, a place, I feel like I'm really easy to talk to (and I love the hell out of video games as much as board games). i love talking about sports and trying anything new twice (mostly). I've been to 20 states and I'd love to add more places to travel to!

If you think we'd click and the honesty and openness does it for you, I'd love to chat!