Hi,
My name is Al. I’m 38, white, 6ft tall, dad bod but strong and built, well hung and bearded. A rugged and gritty bear of a man. I’m based in the south east of England and work in London.
I have been involved in BDSM in some way or another for twenty years, however, it’s been a very tough three years since my last dynamic came to an end - I am experienced and I like to think I’m pretty good at it. I’m patient, understanding and respectful of boundaries and limits and I am incredibly focused on providing aftercare, dealing with sub drop and building up my sub after sessions. I am primarily a sadist with some daddy qualities but I’m happy to adapt to any dominant role that you’re looking for.
I like to view dynamics as a two way street. I want you to be able to indulge in your favourite kinks as well as enjoying mine. It’s much more fun if my partner enjoys themselves rather than going through the motions of indulging in kinks they don’t enjoy.
Outside of kink I am a huge nerd who enjoys sci fi, horror, fantasy, superhero stuff etc. I love live music and I’m pretty good in the kitchen.
I have a wickedly dark and deadpan sense of humour.
I am in a long term, open relationship. My partner is fully aware.
I’m looking for someone who needs a connection first and foremost before indulging in any sort of kink. As much as it’s fun to have a 24/7 exchange, let’s be realistic, work, studies, family, social commitments and life in general get in the way. I need to have someone in my life that’s just as comfortable being a friend as well as a sub.
If you have any interest in possibly chatting some more, drop me a chat and let’s go from there.
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