I'm a professor of history at a college in Arkansas who is very happily married but my wife and I have struggled for a few years now to balance our sex lives, work and family commitments. I have a daughter in middle school who keeps us very busy. Most important thing is that I am not looking to disrupt my home life. However, I am looking for something exciting as the semester starts to help me stay focused and rekindle my fire to keep me energized and enthusiastic.

About Me: I am average height with broad shoulders and a little more around the waist than I would prefer. Brown hair, blue eyes with a salt and pepper beard that is increasingly more salt than pepper (teenagers are hell for stress). I'm told I have a great smile and kind eyes. Well educated, but smart enough to know that doesn't always correlate with intelligence. I enjoy reading and spend most of my time in my office doing so for research. I try to spend as much time as I can outside fishing, hiking, kayaking, camping and really anything that gets me into the woods or waters of the Ozarks. I was a gamer in a former life and have largely limited that Legend of Zelda and Rockstar games over the last five years or so. Finally, I am sensualist with broad interests in the kink world.

What I am looking for: Ideally I am looking for someone who is in a similar situation who I connect with mentally. I want the conversation to be easy and engaging. I am attracted to intelligence above all else and tend to be more compatible with professionals or those that aspire to be so. That said, if you are inquisitive and funny we will get along just fine. I'm looking for an online dynamic only to start, but am not opposed to getting together if it can be arranged if we connect. Bonus points if our kink interests line up and we can explore that further.