Hi!

I'm 33 living in the Milwaukee area. I'm looking to intentionally date but after a few years of getting to know myself through life experiences, therapy, etc. I know that any relationship I start from now on has to have a kinky element to it. I find an age gap incredibly hot.

Just like any relationship though, this would be built on mutual respect and consent. In addition to kink, I do have other goals or hopes for a relationship - I definitely want to get married and I very much see myself as having a family one day. I work in education and have always wanted to have a family of my own. I'll be sure to add more specifics about me and what I'm looking for below, but please know that I am not out here to be a fake Dom who will call you his slut after 5 minutes, make you feel uncomfortable, etc. I'm here to make a genuine connection and hopefully hit it off with someone who shares the same goals and interests. Submission is a sign of love and respect and I know that those are earned through my actions and conduct.

Me:
33
6'4"
I'd say I'm an average build but look pretty lanky due to my height but I've been putting in work in the gym :)
Dark haired, blue eyes
Liberal and non religious
I am 420 friendly and dabble in psychedelics but that's it. No hard drugs.
I'm a switch. 80% Dom and 20% sub if I had to put percentage to it.

Interests and passions:
I love learning and trying new things. I'm fascinated by history, language and culture, words and the whole world around us! I love music though I don't play any instruments myself. I enjoy going on bike rides around the city and I also like trying new restaurants and bars! I'm also always down for a good concert or festival.

My kinks and my limits:

• Breeding
• 1950s lifestyle (especially in mentality and practice, not necessarily esthetically... That said I am progressive so I think I enjoy this kink because it is a way to play with and poke fun of rigid gender roles while also enjoying them and the nostalgia) - bimbofication / sluttification - I wanna make you my slut - dollification - bongage - CNC, kidnapping and r*pe play - hypnosis play
• Anal play
• orgasm control and denial - light exhibitionism such as wearing toys or using a vibrator in public like at bars, clubs, farmers markets, etc.
• caregiver and little (no age play tho) - I'd like something close to a TPE but not 100%

**I should also mention clearly that I am very curious about filming/camming with my sub. Anonymity would be paramount for me and obviously your choice for you. Definitely on Fet to start but maybe one day on OF. Not a set in stone kink but would like to explore one day!*\*

• no blood, inc*st, scat or watersports. Other than that I'm up for discussion.

You:

• Between 21 and 25 (18-20 considered if the vibe is right)
• Live within 2 hours of me.
• Bdsm is only part of you - you also want to date intentionally and look towards the future with a dependable partner but you're also open to playing outside of the bedroom - potentially interested in a near TPE.
• Cis- female please! I'm an ally but I am not interested in any trans-women who want to be bimbofied. - Please have an education and/or solid career
• Be in decent shape / be attractive. Sorry to sound shallow but I know I'm pretty attractive so I want to find someone who I'm mutually attracted to. I don't have a type other than that really.

Your kinks:

• 1950s
• breeding
• hypnosis play
• bimbofication, dollification, and sluttification
• free use
• Ds
• CNC, r*pe, kidnap play
• anal
• misogyny
• dirty talk
• light exhibitionism
• worship of Dom, praise
• lingerie, collars
• orgasm denial

You should ideally like most of the same things as me but feel free to bring anything else to the table that isnt a limit for me. That said, if you're into 1950s, bimbofication and breeding then why haven't you messaged already??!! And if you're interested in having your own collaring ceremony, wearing a daily collar... Even better!

You should message me if:

• You're interesting in the relationship and dating part just as much as the kink. You want to get married and have kids one day. You're burnt out from online dating and want to try something a bit different!

- If you've made it this far, please reply with "zoinks" and give me some detail about yourself. I'm not gonna engage with low effort replies and conversation considering how much I have worked on and refined this post to be as specifically as possible. There are some pics (sans face) below but I am happy to share face pics with someone I hit it off with and is genuinely interested in talking and building a relationship/dynamic.

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