Okay, let's just cut to the chase shall we:

Please do not message me if all you're going to give is one word replies. Put a little more effort in please. I am looking for something serious that eventually would lead to something long term. I may be young but I do know what I want.

What I am NOT looking for:

• Married: The amount of times married men have messaged me is outstanding. Please don't message me if you are married!!
• Poly: If you and your partner and decided to be open with your relationship then that's great! But personally, it's not my cup of tea.
• Smoking, drinking, or drugs: Sorry but this is most definitely a deal breaker. Grew up around smokers and the smell is terrible. Having a drink once in a while is fine, but please no heavy drinkers.
• Kids: Now I do want kids someday, but if you already have kids then that's something that's a dealbreaker for me, I'm sorry.
• Age: Anyone under the age of 25.

What I AM Looking for:

(Personality wise):

• Age: I am looking for someone between the ages of 25 and 35. If you're a bit older, feel free to still message as you never know what can happen. But please no one who is younger of the age range I've stated.
• Sense of humor: Please have some type of sense of humor. I'm not sure if I'm a full on funny person but I do have my funny moments, so all I ask if you have some of those as well.
• Location: I ask that you are somewhere in the US. I don't mind doing long distance if it can eventually lead up to in person. For anyone outside of the US, as long as you're in Canada or Europe then I don't mind if you still reach out.
• Adaptability: This goes for when wanting to do something with each other (willing to compromise). I've had a couple of relationships where I always did want my partner wanted to do and never did they want to do what I wanted to do.
• Attention and Affection: I don't understand how someone can not give this in a relationship. If you don't, wouldn't that just mean you're not interested?
• Sexually experienced: I'm still a virgin, I mean I haven't even had my first kiss yet. I would want someone who is experienced in this section. When it comes to kinks, I'm willing to explore. As long as there's nothing causing permanent bruising or scars and drawing blood. I've learned so far that I am submissive and a brat.
• Kids: I've stated that I didn't want to chat with someone who already has kids, but I do want kids someday so I do want to find someone who eventually want kids someday.
• Someone to keep me in check:  We all aren't perfect, if you feel I could be doing something better as a partner let me know.

(Appearance wise): There's not much to this, I do prefer someone who is white (no judgement to other races, I'm just more attracted to white guys).

About me:

I will tell you my name in my first reply if I decide to respond to your message. I am 19 years old. I am black, with black hair that's a little past my shoulders and brown eyes. I am 5’7 with a curvy body type (I'm currently working on losing weight). I wear glasses but they are just reading glasses. I am also basically half deaf. I have a hearing aid for my left ear.

I am currently in School. I major in Interior Architecture and Design with a Sustainable Design Degree. That is such a mouthful to say haha.

I don't smoke, drink, or do drugs and never plan on doing so.

I am a very artsy person, I love doing arts and crafts (like drawing, painting, building tiny things, etc). Some of my other hobbies also include reading and writing books (I've written a few but finished one, none are published), playing my instruments (I play piano and acoustic guitar. I have a violin but haven't learned how to play it yet), baking, watching movies, and candle making (this is a new hobby). I’m sure you can probably tell that I am very introverted. For the times when I want to be extroverted, I usually go to the beach or hiking. I also recently picked up a random hobby which is archery (haven’t really started it yet but I am getting there).

I can be very clingy but I am also patient and understanding. If you are busy, let me know please.

Well this got a bit longer than I'd hoped, though if you read everything please feel free to message me if you are interested. Please please please, put some effort into your first message. I would really appreciate it. I most likely won't reply if you don't.