Sometimes in life we have to turn the page to the next chapter in life. Life has a way of helping us learn valuable lessons, but in the end we move forward on the path towards our happiness. I have not posted in awhile as I was seeing someone, but ultimately they were not a good fit and I am ready to find my person. I've posted a lot over the last year, and you can click my profile and read a much longer post from me. I've been at this for some time and looking for my Forever Love.
Some things that are VERY important to me:
Communication
Honesty (I've had to deal with liars over the last year, and I simply cannot)
Monogamy
Physical Touch
Understanding
Family
I am a Hopeless Romantic that wants honesty, trust, affection, love, and communication. I am a Daddy Dom but I can be versatile in that I can lean more towards Soft or Pleasure Dom depending upon my partner. Having a dynamic is important, but my main focus is on compatibility and finding the right person. My love languages include physical touch, words of affirmation, and quality time. I love to be in love, and will dote over my partner. You will know how much you are loved, and I will fight for our relationship to the very end. Together, we will get through anything. I want to be married, that is important to me. I am monogamous only. I have been poly in the past and I respect those that are, but for me I am at a point in my life where I want my person and want to be selfish with them. I am open to having kids, but it is not a requirement. If you are located outside of the U.S., it will not work. Long distance is hard enough, but I was engaged to someone outside of the U.S. and was going through the K1 process only for them to lie and I have to cancel it.
I am NOT perfect. I have flaws. I love like a teenager, and to some that might be silly. I do not feel my age, at all. I stay up all night playing video games or just watching Teen Love movies like Everything, Everything or The Sun is Also a Star. I will watch one of those movies and get lost... it is one of the ways I am able to connect and feel love. I have a history of dating people that have not been compatible with me or have treated me the best. I am looking for something real and serious. I've wanted to be loved since I was a teenager, and I am still waiting for that in my life. I am not here to play games. I am not someone that would cheat on their partner. I am honest, loyal, and transparent; sometimes to a fault. I will sometimes be too blunt but I do not want things to be confused. I am serious about finding love and it building up to a marriage. I am not looking for something casual. And if you are not serious about communicating and actually getting to know each other, it is not going to work. I have a goal in mind, and that is to find love. I am well rooted here in Ohio, and would much rather someone local or someone open to relocation.
Interested? Check out my other posts. Or message me. Let's talk and see if we fit. If you are looking your person, I could be him. You never know!
This is VERY important. I am a bigger guy. I will be happy to show you a picture of me. Does it impact my life? Yes. I do drive. I do get around. But I am a work in progress. I've lost some weight, and I am working every day to get healthier and to lose more weight. If you have ANY issue with someone that is overweight or feel that you would not be attracted to someone overweight, there is no need to message me. I won't be your type. I would rather not waste your time. I've been big my entire life and it is a struggle, but that does not make me any less of a partner. If anything, it allows me the ability to know that while my partner may have flaws that they are not defined by them.
Quick Facts About Me:
38 | Male | Cleveland, Ohio | Hopeless Romantic
Pro-LGBTQ . | Liberal | Open Minded
Geeky | Bigger Guy | Affectionate
5 foot 9 inches | Blue eyes | Dark Brown Hair though I dye it all of the time
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