I should probably start with what I'm not looking for, so those people don't have to read any further:

• One day talkers. I want these chats to last more than that with the potential for real life meets.

• People who talk for months, shower me with praise, arrange to meet and then ghost or block the day before or the day of the meet.

• People who just want me to join something.

• People unwilling to share a SFW picture.

Still here? Fantastic. You're the person I want to talk to.

As per the title, I'm more and more aware that I'm getting older (maybe time for a midlife crisis) and a lot of my intimate encounters have been similar or the same. So I'm hoping to try some things and have experiences that I've not had before.

I have some romantic fantasises like laying on one of those beds on the beach with a lovely lady, cuddling and watching the sun go down. Or walking along the beach with a lady in a bikini. But realistically those are unlikely in the short term.

A list of things I can think of follows however even if you're don't "fit" the list or are into different things I'm open to new experiences so please do contact me if you think we could have fun. For instance, I've listed certain looks but that's only because I've never been intimate with ladies like that and I'm curious what it would be like. That doesn't mean I'm ONLY attracted to that look so I'm very open to speaking to anyone. I'd love to hear about the things you love both in and out of the bedroom. I'm a caring, sensual guy who loves giving pleasure to the lady I'm with.

So a few things I can think of that I've never experienced are:

• Interracial. I'm not into race play but have only ever been involved with white women. That wasn't planned I hasten to add. It's just how things worked out.
• Blondes / Redheads. All of the women I've been with have been brunette. I love all hair colours but I'd love to have some fun with blondes or redheads.
• Slim / Petite women. Being a bigger guy I like the idea of protecting and enveloping shorter women in my arms. I love curvy women too but the point of this post is looking for things I've not experienced before.
• Small / perky boobs I love all boobs but the breasts I've played with have been medium to large so far.
• Toy control
• Age gap. Nothing too creepy but all the women I've been with have been similar age. I'm the nurturing type so it sounds like it may be fun to be a father figure.
• Events/Parties

If you've into something fun that's not on that list please tell me all about it. Please do include a picture. It may seem shallow but I get mucked around so much on here it's good to see who I'm talking to and as a "red flag" check.