Twenty-two year old female in the San Diego area. Honestly not looking for anything serious just someone to talk/get-to-know. I want to see where things lead as to meeting people online isn’t really ever promising/my last resort to hopefully getting more experience in my dating life. So I’m really looking to chat. I’ve always been interested in older men but it’s extremely hard to find connections just because I don’t do dating apps and most of my friends dads are happily married (lol) so I never really know where to meet older men or how to put myself in the position for them to know I’m interested.

I’d prefer to speak to men around the age of 30-49 and in the same area as me. I don’t mind chatting with older men who are not in the same city/state but if we chat and get along I’d want to eventually meet so being far away wouldn’t help but still open to chat!

The type of man I’m looking for is someone who is dominant and I’m not meaning just sexually (although that is a plus) I’m mainly talking about a man who takes lead in almost everything lol. I believe that’s why I’m so attracted to older men sometimes there’s an aura that I can’t ignore when it comes to it. As lame as it sounds I want to submit to a man but in a partnership I believe it’s important the man submits to the women on the same wavelength. I like someone who’s stern and takes charge while also letting me have a say in things. I like a man who’s not going to play games and tells me exactly what he thinks/feels I enjoy when a man is able to love me publicly but also even more privately. Some older men (and I mean SOME) are just more emotionally mature than men my age and I find that so attractive. I want to be able to look up to you as a teacher/mentor so it important that my partner is supporting/guiding me and emotionally stable. I think it’s nice when a man is secure in his sexuality and not constantly deeming things as gay/feminine. I was raised traditionally so I like a hard working man who provides and protects. I’m really interested in talking to any and everyone but I do have preferences much like a lot of you men.

Ideally I’m young and I know trying to meet men online never really works out but I’m deciding to give it a try. I’m at the age where I feel like I should be going out on dates and actively meeting new people. So if you think we’d get along send me a message I would love to chat. Please don’t expect me to send pictures or share personal information right away that’s definitely not something I’m comfortable with lol so if you are the type to hash that information out immediately just know I’m really needing someone I can trust and chat with before hand.