I'm an older male in my 40's looking for a strictly online relationship with someone who is interested in being a sub and would like to give up control in several aspects of their lives. I'm looking for something serious, and long term.

Here's the basics:

What I crave, ultimately, is control. That's the kink, in addition to the other things I'm very open to. I want to find someone I can explore the aspect of control with, in many ways, including below:

1. Online chat/reddit activity - If you're wanting for any reason to watch porn, roleplay online or enjoy dirty talk, I'm open to it, but any requests or posts must be cleared by me and considered short term.

2. Personal time - I'll never affect your school, work or family life, but I want control over whether or not I agree to let you be with friends or go on a date, etc. I lean towards being lenient because we all need a life, but I want first say and need details on who. Anything that would involve being sexual would have to be not only approved, but also reported back to me in detail for my own pleasure.

3. Clothing - I'd require helping choose outfits, both every day stuff and of course lingerie, cosplay if they do it, etc. I'd request online shopping carts be sent to me, especially in regards to toys and sexual play items. Would love to help choose make-up looks, etc as well.

4. Sexual tasks and assignments. I prefer someone that is NOT risk averse. Someone who craves attention or public displays and exhibitionism would be ideal. These tasks would require proof, as you can imagine, so you must be comfortable sending that proof, although we can discuss that privately before moving forward. I have done a little of this already and it starts with simple things typically, and would progress from there.

5. Life stuff - Need help with advice on a personal matter? Hate making choices? Get anxious over decisions? Whether it's what to eat or where to invest, I'm happy to assist.

If you'd like to explore this, send me a chat or DM please. I'm not interested in OF accounts or pay sites, thanks.