I just appreciate having this space to be myself in, and having someone here that I feel like I can truly be myself with.
I don't have any expectations about who that someone might be or what she might look like or where she might live, but I am looking for that amazing chemistry where the conversation is fun and effortless. Like, a true secret friend. I wouldn't be mad if we had a naughty vibe woven into our conversation, but I also wouldn't be mad if we just got along really well and enjoyed each other's company. I'm not pushing for anything specific, I just want to meet you.
I say secret friend because this does need to remain a secret. I am married, with a family, and I'm not unhappy about that. But that world comes with all the constraints of polite, mind numbing, small talk while heading off to your next responsibility. I'm good at all that, but I don't often feel like myself there, more like the version of myself that I need to be to get shit done. I come to this place to relax, to let my mind wander and daydream in a more unfiltered space, and all of that would be much more enjoyable with you here. I realize that me being married will probably turn most off to me, but hopefully you like the idea, and it will give you one more reason to say hello.
Where ever you are, who ever you are... We can talk about anything and everything here is this space, once we have got to know each other a bit. But we have to start with a hello. So, say hello!
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