I'm in the Portland, Oregon area but am willing to drive a reasonable distance.

I'm looking for a cute, young college girl to get to know. I love to make you laugh, and I'd like to have fun conversation while we hang out at either of our places or meet up for dates. I have a dominant personality and prefer a submissive girl, but I don't just want sex. I want you to enjoy everything we do together. Ideally, I want a real, genuine connection that can build into something lifelong.

I'll take you to movies, restaurants, hiking, and different events. Do you like hiking or visiting beautiful gardens, having picnics, or going to museums? How about concerts, comedy clubs, or a random weekend in Vegas? I'd love to treat a good girl to good times, see her smile, show her off, and hold her close. I'm up for kinky things, but If I feel like you are not enjoying something then I will stop, unless we had a discussion about it or are roleplaying a scenario but I know you like what we're doing. Good communication is a must.

I am not married or otherwise attached. You should not be either. Exclusive only. This is non-negotiable. Also be clean, like I am, and have an IUD or be on some other form of birth control.

I'm 42, Caucasian, over 6ft tall, green eyes, five o'clock shadow, athletic build. I workout regularly and I'm taking my nutrition and health seriously. A few things I enjoy include gardening even though I don't have a garden right now, board games, video games, and movies. I like to be called Daddy sometimes but it's a special term that I take seriously so don't use it at first.

I would like to have a collar my girl wears at least sometimes in public that looks like jewelry but has a lock that only I have the key for. I won't get into all of the sexual and kinky stuff I'm into because that's not the point, if you don't have experience you can be trained and if you like something I haven't done we can try it. The main point is to find a good girl in the first place.

I have posted on Reddit before but have never gotten comfortable enough to meet up with anyone. I will take this post down when I either give up or I find a good girl to get to know because I don't play the field, I just date and give my attention to one girl.