In the ideal, you're an intelligent, ambitious person who wants to understand and experience everything the world has to offer. At times you can be depressed, directionless, but there is a fire within you that yearns to be fueled.

I provide you with my endless well of knowledge, while you distract me from my ennui. Not that I spend my days bored, yearning for a distraction, I have a rather busy life and can be very unavailable some days. It's precisely because I am so busy that I would benefit from a fresh arrangement. Some people tend to plants, they enjoy nurturing them and watching them grow, I tend to people.

The sexual component is not strictly necessary. My main goal is for you to respect me. Once you respect me, you begin to crave my praise and attention. Once you crave my praise and attention, you start becoming creative in how to obtain it. I like when I can see that the effort I put in is reciprocated. I'm no prey but you can pursue me.

I respond well to people who display curiosity, ambition, intelligence. I'm not looking for an equal, I want someone who recognizes that they can benefit greatly from having access to my time and careful consideration.

This will not be new to me, and it's of no import to me if it is or isn't new to you. I've thoroughly explored kink, I've explored human interpersonal dynamics thoroughly as well. I have no pressing fantasies left to fulfill. I will be choosy, we'll talk a long time before formalizing anything. I need to get to know you and be able to imagine what will interest me about us knowing each other, what there is about your future, or your personality, that will keep me interested and curious to see what happens next, and the influence I can exert on the trajectory of your life.

The bare minimum I want to know is your age and current living situation. Do you live with family or alone? Do you have a job? Do you study? Etc. etc. etc. etc.