Please read through the entire post and understand that if you don’t send a message that’s somewhat responsive to this post AND includes a photo of you, I will immediately delete it. Your face pic gets mine - I have a body shot in my profile already.

That being said… I’m looking for an older man to be friends with benefits (emphasis on friends!) Ideally, we get drinks soon, see if we hit it off, and then can meet up regularly for conversation and tension over dinner and drinks before taking things private. However, would also be great to have someone to drunk dial after going to the bar…

I’m also looking for someone that wants to chat throughout the day and at night when we can’t be together - I love sending photos and sexting so hopefully that’s something you’re into. Beyond the sexual aspect, I also just want to be interested in each others lives.

I understand Reddit is an unconventional place to be looking for a FWB and I could easily go on Tinder but I’ve found it’s easier to lay out expectations here.

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About me: I’m a 25 year old young finance-ish professional living in Brooklyn. I am blonde, petite (5’2”, 110-115 lbs), have been told I resemble lots of different celebrities so I take that to mean I’m attractive… I am not a fitness enthusiast by any means but I try to exercise regularly - mostly yoga. I’m a very sexual person and a natural pleaser but only with someone I’m comfortable with and who puts equal effort into pleasing me.

You should be: 45 WM; living in Manhattan, Brooklyn or willing to commute in and get a hotel; clean-cut, professional and successful guy (I’m talking wear a suit to work, make 6 figs - sorry if that seems shallow but this is all fantasy after all); dominant and verbal in the bedroom; flexible in terms of your schedule. If you are into DDLG/roleplay even better. Please don’t be someone who is posting 45x a day on Reddit looking for sex - it’s an ick, sorry.

If we click, be prepared to do a full STD panel and share the results - obviously I will do the same. I won’t fuck on the first meet, so understand there’s a bit of a time commitment at the outset of this!