Ok, this may be a weird approach, but follow me. What if we talk about our days, mutually infodumped our favorite things we recently learned, or just simply got enough out of getting to know each other alone instead of something that's purely sexual? Maybe a legitimate relationship could happen down the line with the added benefit of being based on a friendship?

Crazy, right?

Well, if that sounds interesting enough to continue, I'm a guy who's had a lifetime and a half already and I'm not even out of my thirties yet. For the bulk of time, I've been the type of person that only slept a handful of hours and then woke up and spent as much time following my passions as I could.

I happily make time for relationships but I'm kind of a paid jack of all trades in the arts (Music, visual art, theatre, I can be more specific in chat). I also have made an interesting career in the alcohol industry so I can be a busy guy but I would love to have someone to bore with work stories while they distracted me with theirs.

Other than that, I'm a relatively funny guy, overeducated (please like nerdy types), 420 friendly, a fan of equality if it can ever be allowed to be a thing. My interests are vast but hockey, movies, roadtrips, cultural exchange, comic book lore, and stand up comedy are all things I'll readily geek out about.

I was an advanced kid growing up. I had a weird affinity for reference books and non fiction and would constantly be looking up whatever I didn't know about even to the point of regularly going end to end in an adult encyclopedia set.

I'm told that's a sign of autism a lot lately and while I'd say there's times I wonder if I'm on the spectrum I've been frequently told I'm not, so in any event, I tend to fit in well with people who are, so feel free to openly tism as you please.

Was that enough? Cause I got plenty more things I can drone on about if you need, but I'd also like to see you give it a shot. If you send me a message, open by mentioning sleeping with a fan on as a way of telling me you read the whole thing or at least skipped to the bottom as I like to cut out the scammy folks like just respond to a head line.