Despite what my name implies, I'm not necessarily looking for something in the BDSM lifestyle. If it's something you're into, awesome, but that's not why I'm here.

I'm here because I've found myself in a place where I'm ready to take a younger girl, protect her, guide her, emotionally support her, and show her unconditional and hopelessly romantic love until one of us kicks the bucket.

I'm 5'10" with an athletic-ish build (I'm strong, in shape, and exercise but I don't care about being "ripped" at all), blue eyes, a shaved head, and short beard. I'm more than happy to send pics as long as they're strictly SFW for the time being.

In my free time I love to game on PC/PS5, read, write, binge watch Twitch/YouTube, listen to music, garden, cook, paint miniatures, and I'm in the process of practicing drawing again after leaving the hobby alone for 15 years.

I'm seeking a girl that wants to be loved, treated like the only girl alive for me, and who wants something long term and monogamous. I work full time and live alone so letting you visit/relocate is super easy.

I prefer a girl with a slim to average build and bonus points if you're super clingy. I mean wanting my attention and texting me all the time and clinging to me in person kind of clingy. I crave emotional depth and intensity far more than anything physical.

I will say I'm child free, 420 friendly, and strictly monogamous. Those aren't changing for anyone.
If you're interested, send me a message or chat request telling me about yourself.
Sorry to say but I get so many messages from ghosts, fakes, etc that I'm going to have to start vetting messages. If you have a blank profile or don't tell me about yourself, I'm simply not going to reply to you for fear of having my time wasted.
Have a beautiful and safe New Year and hope to talk to you soon!