I'm a 40 year old divorced Dad from northeastern New England. I'm successful in my career, attractive, and provide for myself and my family. Politically left leaning, and very open-minded. I am currently dating solo-poly and have one partner.

I have pics and am happy to share if you are also willing to as well.

I own my house, and I've been working and successful in my current career for 11 years. I've leveraged dating apps (too vanilla), FetLife (not bad but the interface isn't 100%) and Reddit in addition to meeting folks irl. Of course having an age gap kink is tough for most people irl.

What I'm looking for is a deviant, sexually adventurous, openminded, bi/pansexual partner (I'm heteroflexible, but not into masculine folks) and interested in more than just chatting on here. Someone who wants the support and mentorship of an older, established and educated man, but who is also looking to contribute and be emotionally supportive and intimate (emotionally and intellectually intimate NOT JUST sexually).

I'm very kinky, and typically sex forward. I usually lead with sexuality as playing is one of my favorite things, I'm also demisexual so I do want to develop an emotional or intellectual connection first. I will eagerly discuss kink with anyone who wants to ask questions or just be filthy with each other here. I don't necessarily need an intimate connection to sleep with someone (I'm demisexual, so I need to have SOME connection), and I'm usually openly sexual upfront if I like you. That being said, I DO want to develop a deeper, intimacy and connection, but that takes time and intention.

Send me a DM if you want to know more. Please include a little bit about yourself, your age, location, and what you'd like me to call you. Also tell me what your favorite album or musician is if you've made it this far, brava!

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